The Sex expo offered us so many learning opportunities, and the resources to rediscover our sexual drive. Jonti Searll from ErosLife lead a workshop on Beautiful Breast Massage, Expended Energy Orgasm for Her, The Best Handjob Ever and How To F**k Like a God/Godess… are you ready to discover more?
What are the 4 things keeping us from good sex?
Communication, Asking for what we want, Learning about the possibilities, and Feeling safe.
How do we improve our sex lives in a healthy way?
We become more aware of what we want from sex, what we desire, what turns us on. We learn to communicate our desires and likes, openly, honestly, and authentically, without fear of rejection. We learn to create safety for ourselves and our partners.
What does one do when one partner has a lower libido, and your needs feel unmet?
This is pretty common, and to think the level of desire is going to be the same in all of us all the time is quite an illusion. It’s actually a big question that doesn’t have a simple answer. It requires communication.
It also requires us to understand that we don’t always have to have the desire. We can have the intention of feeling close to our partner, feeling loved, feeling excited, and begin to do something sensual, and sexual, and often the desire will arise.
It’s also important not to pressure your partner, they’ll shut down more. If it’s something that’s happening a lot then some kind of help will be good, as desire is not only about sex, it’s linked to our minds and to our emotions.
What is an Expanded Energy Orgasm for Her?
Expanded Energy Orgasm is a practice that allows a woman to be in an orgasmic state for 20, 30 minutes, even longer.
The way most of us have orgasms is contractive, explosions, which are quite short, maybe 3o seconds. Expanded Energy Orgasm is an orgasmic state, waves of pleasure that move through her body.
What is the secret to a good, or the Best Handjob?
Lube, communication, learning to breathe, connection, learning the strokes to give a man deep pleasure.
To find out more about your pleasure, visit www.eroslife.co.za.
